Following their marriage in 1884 at the home of her grandparents in Reading, Sybil and Arthur set up housekeeping at a newly-purchased home in Brumley, where Arthur’s factory was located. Sybil gave birth to a daughter Sheila in 1886, but never seemed to be able to develop a close relationship with her. Rather, after a miscarriage, her pride and joy Eric was born in 1890. Her father the colonel died in 1892 and her mother the following year. Her unmarried sister Agnes remained in the family home in Reading. Throughout the youth of her son Eric, Sybil tended to dote on the boy, much to his father’s chagrin. The child was quite sickly for his first six years, and Sybil spent much of her time tending to him, reading to him, playing the piano to entertain him. Sheila was packed off to boarding school in 1900; shortly thereafter, Eric substantially recovered. Sybil continued to devote herself to running the household and seeing to her son’s health and education. At his father’s urging, however, Eric was himself shortly sent to boarding school in 1902. She largely ignored Sheila until late that same year when her daughter became infatuated with an army officer. After the Christmas holidays that year, against her father’s wishes, Sheila was summarily sent to live with Sybil’s sister Agnes in Reading. Thereafter, Sybil refocused much of her energy on a variety of civic activities, charity organizations and events. Then, in 1904, frustrated by her own unrequited ambition, she urged her husband to seek an appointment as Alderman. However, in 1906, Eric was expelled from school and her husband became ill. Sybil then asked Sheila to return from a trip to Italy and enlisted her aid at her husband’s factory to try to straighten the accounts and operations. Headstrong and willful, Sybil made various decisions about the business that she presumed would have a positive effect, but in reality made little positive change. But with an outwardly-common goal, she and daughter Sheila actually began to have a less fractious relationship. The business was ailing badly and it was during this period that she was approached by George Croft of Crofts Limited to sell him Birling and Company. She proudly refused his offer, and thankfully, shortly thereafter, her husband regained his vitality and returned to once again operate the business successfully. When her husband was named Lord Mayor of Brumley in 1909, Sybil again returned to her work with charitable organizations, sometimes accompanied by Sheila.